It is not easy to start and maintain a relationship, especially if you are a transgender person. A love relationship requires a lot, including respect, love, commitment and etc.. However, I’m not here to talk about how to start a relationship, or the basis of start a relationship, instead, I’m here to help all transgender people to strengthen their relationship.
Not everyone is willing to share their love experience with other people, so it is not easy for us to get any advice on how to strengthen a relationship from couples and friends. Many people especially these in love relationships turn to look for advice online. They hope to find some solutions online, and help them to strengthen their relationships or build a stable relationship. If you don’t know how to upgrade your relationship and make everything better than before, just follow my steps here.
As a trans person, or someone in a love relationship with a trans person, you should be open and clear about what do you want from the relationship. No matter what you want, speak it out loudly rather than hiding it in your deep heart. Don’t play mind games with your partner, be clear about what you want, and make sure he/she knows what you want. If you are uncomfortable with the way of communication, say it loudly, only in this way can you find another way to communicate with your partner. I reality, some people cannot realize what’s going wrong if you don’t notice them, sometimes we even don’t realize that something we did make our partners angry. Communication is the best way to remove misunderstanding and upgrade your relationship.
It means share your story with your partner. Many transgender people don’t want to share their stories before and during transition with their partners, I can really understand what are they thinking about. They have the right to keep it as a secret. However, if you are a transgender person who wants to have a long term relationship with your partner, I suggest you to share your story with your partner if you want. It doesn’t mean devote everything about yourself into a relationship without reservation, but a way to show your sincerity and honesty. All relationships are based on sincerity and honesty. The reason why most of transgender people don’t want to share their stories with other people is that they are lack of confidence. So, no matter you are a transgender person or not, be confident in your relationship.
3. Get together
One of the reasons why more and more singles cannot find a life partner is that they are too busy with their jobs, and don’t have enough time for trans dating. Whether you are busy or not, spend time with your partner is an important step on the way to build a relationship. Get together with your partner when you are free, communicate with your partner frequently. All relationships are based on mutual understanding, while spending time together is the best way to know each other.